You need to understand yourself and your partner in order to understand what is happening between you both. To shift from “we’re fine”, disconnection or repeat patterns, to thriving in a conscious, loving, intimate, even transcendent relationship.
This dynamic isn’t just people talking, touching and sharing daily life, it is hearts and minds weaving together and relating. It involves rapport, understanding. Inherently sacred and beautiful, it is a giving and receiving.
There’s an art and a flow which is missing in our professional western system and clinical ways. But with ancient techniques of the east, compassion, understanding and love we can meet on the plane of the psyche and the level of the heart. With western psychological sciences adding practicality and my proven method to the work we cover all aspects that make you, you and, shape your relationship and the world you co-create together.
The understanding of self is as important as understanding those you are in relationship with. This has had the most profound effect in my life and relationships and it has been a gift to others I’ve worked with as well, to experience life this way. To be unified and one instead of separate, hurting and distorted.
Relationship is the most beautiful thing we have, the way you connect to yourself, to others and the world around you. If more love and beauty can be expressed through that than any other thing you do, all the more understanding, growth, sharing, potential for a partnership to continue to flourish over time.
For if you have a strong, connected relationship with someone you can change their world. Your influence on someone else can change the nature of their reality and the reality you share together. Co-creating a relationship, like co-creating a word of goodness, truth, beauty, depth, intimacy, love and conscious connection. The kind of relationship we long to have. This is the most powerful way to work: both on ourselves and others.
“Lift the veil that obscures the heart and there you will find what you are looking for.” -Kabir
Our way back to love – her method is unrivalled.
Elise helped my partner and I navigate through some really tough areas of our relationship in the most magical and easeful way. She taught us how to learn to communicate consciously, respectfully and with love, and helped us delve deeper into how we could better all areas of our relationship so we could truly thrive as a pair. Her method is unrivalled - she creates a safe and sacred container for both individuals to thrive and connect. It is obvious she truly cares and is highly trained and well-equipped to serve in this space. During a time where we felt like giving up, Elise helped us find our way back to love.
Courtney
Journalist
Truly one of a kind… amazing… we couldn’t ask for a better course!
It's been amazing for us - sparking a lot of conversation and intimacy. It was so educational, uplifting and illuminating! The portion on Daily Love Moments. Hold on to them and continue to practice them because those are especially, in our day to day lives being busy and being caught up with work, those are really moments that you can value and celebrate every day and look forward to. Scheduling intimacy was one big thing for us as well. Making it sacred and thus, if something is sacred, you schedule it you're looking forward to it. That's something we’ve incorporated and we look forward to continuing because it does make a big impact and we know it's that time for us as this beautiful practice of putting time aside for you as the union, is incredible
She did a fantastic job of structuring the course where you start out with the psychological move on to emotions, intimacy and then love and wisdom. You're really working to understand yourself so that you can show up for your partner but also yourself as the beautiful union that you have. It felt like an excellent progression. I couldn't ask for a better course. Opening with that personality test especially for people that haven't had exposure to that before - seeing the measurable portion of it and then knowing where we kind of need to focus our attention for that other person and to be there to support that other person. Thank you so much Elise thank you for being able to support so many people and have couples that can really love and elevate together. We loved it so much, we appreciate it so much.
Diana & Jordan
Incredible leadership through relationships – she’s the woman.
I want to recommend Elise Carr and her incredible leadership through relationships. I’ve known Elise for 10 years. She has been a huge part of my journey in becoming the woman that I am today, to speak up openly, communicate with my boyfriend-now-husband. She really put us on the trajectory of working on our relationship, having deep, honest, open conversation and communication just after we had our son. I highly recommend, if you are looking for someone to support you through your own journey with your own self, relationship or with your partner, she’s the woman.
Heidi Anderson
PR Coach & Publicist
Saved our relationship.
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Back on track with my marriage.
The way Elise translated how I was feeling to my husband made me feel fully understood and supported ... I feel back on track with my marriage and more emotionally connected to him. Elise is amazing at being able to engage both men and women in her style, and I loved her intuitive approach.
Stephanie
Entrepreneur, Business Owner & Muma
Major breakthrough with my beloved.
Wow! Such an incredible experience Following Elise’s advice, I had a major breakthrough with my beloved that has resulted in both of us feeling heard, seen, loved, and actively committed to taking the steps we need to keep moving forward in greater harmony. I can literally feel the vitality and joy returning to my body, heart, and mind.
Daisy
PhD, Counsellor, Yoga & Meditation teacher
Exactly what we were both needing.
… everything is so amazing! … this became exactly what we were both needing. We have been enjoying each other so much since. Taking everything that you offered on board and the connection is beautiful! Thank you so much for your beautiful and loving support. It was what was needed.
Laris
Coach & Leadership Consultant
The perfect partner to help couples level up their relationship.
After nearly 20 years as a couple,... a timely refresher on all aspects of being in a loving relationship. Powerful and gave us new insights, even after all this time. Elise's clear communication, warmth and genuine care make her the perfect partner to help couples level up their relationship - and it's definitely something we would recommend to others wanting to feel greater connection in their lives together
Travis & Natalie
Profound effect on our relationship.
A profound effect on our relationship. Thank you! We definitely want to do another session … thanking you again for your divine wisdom.
C & P
Helped us develop and grow… reconnect on a more emotional and deeper level… and a more spiritual level.
Elise has helped me personally to grow within myself as well as in partnership with my husband. My husband and I worked through areas in our relationship and life which helped us develop and grow. After seeing Elise a few times individually we decided to do the couples course as we thought it would be very beneficial. We found the format was flexible, to progress at our own pace. Each module included reflective questions or activities that encouraged us to apply what we were learning to our own relationship. It gave us opportunities to have open conversations and work through important development activities. There were also some deeper dives into intimacy, connection and communication, which helped us reconnect on a more emotional and deeper level. Within this course Elise provides lots of real-life relatable examples to illustrate key points. I highly recommend the couples course to reconnect your relationship on a deeper and more spiritual level. Thank you Elise for your guidance and support.
Rebecca
We didn’t realise how much deeper we could go.
I completed Elise’s “Deeper Intimacy & Conscious Love” program and I can’t recommend this enough. We didn’t realise how much deeper we could go. I am so grateful we did this program together. Even though I loved learning at our own pace online, the support we could ask Elise personally was very valuable. I ended up having 1:1 conversations with Elise and I am so impressed with her wisdom, and the safe and loving space that she holds. I highly recommend this program to any couple. This program would be amazing to go through more than once.
Yoko Inoue
Raw Chef, Business Owner & Author
Exceptional! Grown our spark back!
Geoff - “With two young kids the spark can be pushed aside but … we’ve been able to reconnect and grow our spark back! Reflect on how I am as a father and with that as a lover to my wife who’s the mother of my children. Thank you Elise, it’s been very fulfilling, helpful and definitely given us tools and grown our spark back which has been lovely. If you’re looking for help to get that ignition and open a path for communication, of deeper love, definitely give this a go!” Bec - “This definitely is a course that gives you strategies, ideas, scenarios to have a lot of deeper conversations - conversations we haven’t had before, even having been together a long time! Thank you for this course!
Bec & Geoff
Completely changed the way I view my husband and has healed so much unnecessary hurt between us. It’s like I turned the light on, and everything became clear.
Beautifully deep, wisely guided, … perfect in every way. Elise’s videos and downloadable pdfs make the course easy to follow and refer back to at any time. I felt a ‘no pressure’ approach and knew if I needed any support or had any roadblocks Elise was there. Everything unfolded in a natural, organic way.
What was a big insight for me was understanding mine and my loved one’s ‘unique personality disposition’. I suddenly realised I had had 28 years of ‘misperception’ and then, the ‘if only I knew THIS earlier’ moment hit that could have right sided my view from the beginning. This was HUGE. It allowed me to view myself and my disposition with more awareness and kindness. The experience has completely changed the way I view my husband and has healed so much unnecessary hurt between us. It’s like I turned the light on and everything became clear.
If only every couple had this opportunity to be truly conscious and connected with each other, the world would be a better place. Be courageous and change your relationship with yourself and your loved one and dive into the ‘28 Day Deeper Intimacy and Conscious Love’ course. A wonderful opportunity for all those humans out there in any stage of their relationship.
Charmaine
Educator
A chance to deepen the connection.
Elise’s guidance is thoughtful, intuitive, and deeply empowering. Her unique approach seamlessly blends spirituality with modern psychology, offering a balanced perspective that feels both grounding and expansive. Her guidance offered us a chance to deepen the connection we already had, providing useful tools and insights to grow together and inviting us to uncover areas of potential new growth. We absolutely recommend this to any couple seeking to nurture their bond, whether in a challenging season or simply wanting to cultivate more meaning and depth.
Dimitra & Stirling
Opened my eyes to something greater. I’d recommend this to anyone in a long-term relationship.
Just some of the things I learnt: Opening up and having difficult conversations. How to initiate more when it comes to intimacy and foreplay…The use of subtle physical touch really does make a difference. Making schedules for 'us' nights/days. The use of meditation. Having a sacred bedroom...
This course is a great way of keeping any healthy relationship up to date and consistent. I'd recommend this to anyone who is in a long-term relationship. We think we may know it all but there's still so much to learn and take away from these modules. The video format was really good too. The manual & PDF’s for each section is also a good way to go back and read up on what was discussed in the video, we did this pretty much after each video. Thank you Elise, for this wonderful opportunity.
Kirill
Artist
Engaging, love-filled… it felt like Elise was there with us every step of the way. All couples can benefit from this course!
We really connected, actively prioritised learning more about ourselves, each other and our relationship. We were able to get out of our comfort zones, have some laughs, feel challenged and realise areas where we can continue to improve and grow as a couple. The course is very professional. It’s obvious Elise is an expert in her field and has so much to share. The course is easy to follow and filled with bite size pieces of expert knowledge, couple’s tips, activities and challenges that we were able to work our way through amongst busy and sometimes opposite schedules. The videos were engaging, love-filled and it felt like Elise was there with us every step of the way. We also loved the couples UPD assessment in week one and learnt how understanding our own and each other’s unique personality traits, can help us to better understand each other and communicate effectively in moments of heightened emotion or disconnect. We will definitely be referring back to the course videos & manual as needed and would 100% recommend that other couples prioritise connecting on a deeper level, with Elise there to guide you. Even if you aren't feeling disconnected, all couples can benefit from this course!
Felicity & Michael
Emotion-releasing… really resonated.
We’ve had really meaningful chats, laughs and for me personally some really deep bedded observations, which has been emotion releasing and great. I realised that I am ‘that person’ that acts out when all I want is to be held. During an argument I actually came back to bed and asked my wife to just hold me. This was probably the first time in my life I asked for what I actually needed in that situation, so this really resonated. Openly, I even spoke to my mum about this, as I did this as a child and since carried this into adulthood. Not only helping my wife and myself, it was helpful to have an open and releasing talk with my mum, which was great!!
Geoff
